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This recipe comes from my sister, and it never fails. It comes together in just about the time it takes to slice some fruit, it works with various combinations of fruit (tonight I made it with 5 plums, 2 apricots, 1 nectarine and a handful of cherries), and most importantly, it tastes delicious. The cake is buttery, not too sweet, and develops a nice caramely crust on top while staying moist and tender below.
Ben is starting to read (more about this exciting development another day), but he's not what you'd call literate yet. Still, when he found the Scrabble set and asked me to play with him, I figured we'd give it a whirl.We've been enjoying some uncharacteristically summery weather here in San Francisco. The fog held off for nearly two weeks, we kept our sweatshirts in the closet, we took evening picnics to the park.

From Peter Gray's The Mistress Cook (1956), with thanks to my mom for transcribing! (and with apologies for his non-PC reference...)

This is one that I can't pass up, even though it is apparently so last summer (check out Pumpkin Pie Bungalow for an exhaustive (exhausting! she's barely posted since) list of everyone who participated.
I saw this at Libby's blog, who saw it at Lilian's, and normally I don't do these things, but it's amusing to see how wrong it is. Although, except for the fact that I'm the youngest of 4, the rest of the description is pretty accurate....
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We really don't have the time to prepare artichokes--there are small children here, after all. So when Tony bought some recently, they sat in the refrigerator for a week. I felt very guilty about this, but every time I looked at them, they just looked like work. I very nearly threw them away, but it turns out that after a week they were still firm and crisp, and I couldn't let them all go to waste. Even though preparing them for cooking seems like you're letting them all go to waste, really, you throw so much away. But it was worth the effort and then some.
I was wearing one of my old Berkeley summer sessions t-shirts today--my bit of schwag from teaching there--and when Ben commented on it ("Nice shirt, Mama!") we got into a brief conversation about my past life as a teacher. Mostly, he's fascinated by the idea of kids living in the place where they go to school (and a little worried about it, too). But for the first time in the hundreds of times he's heard me use the word essay, he asked what an essay is. An essay is a piece of writing that tells people what you think about something, I said. Now, my own students never quite understood it so well, but this is the essay Ben dictated to me:
At 14 months, Eli is coming around to reading later than other members of the family, but lately he's been asking us to read to him, too. He'll pick up a book, crawl over with the book clutched in one hand, clamber headfirst into a lap, and hand over the book. At first, I thought it was a funny coincidence that he always handed over the book upside down, but no matter how many times I turn the book right side up, he always turns it back upside down. So now I read to him that way. This must suit his precocious brain development in some way I don't understand. Or so I like to think.
There was no reason at all to make ricotta cheese this weekend. Most of the family doesn't even like it. But there was a back-of-the-book recipe in Gourmet recently, and it got me reminiscing about Tony's and my glorious trip to Italy, the summer between our marriage and my first pregnancy. We travelled with good friends, gorging on art and wine and food.
It's still light out at Ben's bedtime these days, so the deal is that after I read him one book, he can read in bed a little bit. I'm always curious, when I check on him on my way to bed, to see what he's fallen asleep with. Lately, it's been his picture encyclopedia; he's interested in the planets, can name them in their proper order, tell you which one's a gas planet, etc. Meanwhile, I'm thinking, gas planet? did they know that there were gas planets in the 70s? because that's certainly not something I picked up in elementary school.
If you're anywhere near San Francisco between now and the end of the year, get yourself over to the deYoung Museum to see the exhibit of quilts made by the women of Gee's Bend, Alabama. These quilts just knocked me out. I've always thought quilts are beautiful and interesting. I like the combination of utility and art; I like thinking about the community of women making the quilt, sitting around stitching (and also, in this case, singing) together; I like the combination of individuality (each quilt is unique) and the fact that when a woman sits down to quilt, she can use, refer to, or improvise from quilt patterns that stretch back generations. I don't know how to quilt, but it strikes me that it's a lot like cooking. Or writing. One of the quilters in the exhibit's accompanying film says, "That quilt would cook in my mind." I love that.